Saturday, May 17, 2008

The Long-Talker Hang-Up Dismount...

Long-talker hang-up challenged? That dismount has plagued me for years into now largely avoidance cell phone texting by default. Even short talkers receive no favoritism within the wide net i've cast. Friends who have an awareness of my handicap, now leave me voicemails like "Are you not picking up because you don't know how to hang-up on me?" That was Tami by the way (Short talker) :)...a few months back at a party a friend, Mike, tried to provide me with some great coaching. He said practice these for the quick phone call exits 1) I've got to catch this other call 2) I've got to run and 3) I've got to jump into a meeting. Did I start hanging up on people more after the coaching? I sent him an e-mail to thank him. So, no. Beyond this, I've experienced and do recognize the "closing signs" - the sleepy talking combo yawn with a full-twisting lip smack is a standard escape hatch. At least for others. I've tried that one by the way in a pinch...think I even fell asleep on the phone with a long talker once, no kidding, and they just kept talking, I think...don't know, cell battery ran out by the time I woke up. They may still be talking...can you relate? Tell us about it...

2 comments:

Val.S said...

I was in a car with my friend Ken and he was talking to his wife on the cell phone. He really wanted to get off so we could go back to eating donuts and gossiping so he said to her "So I'm going to let you go now." Like he was doing HER a favor. I still give him a hard time about that.

Krafty said...

If you are on your cell phone, why not just hang up. Then you can send an apologetic text stating you must have hit a "dead spot". The person will understand, while not knowing they are the "dead spot".